Aspergers And Employment Some subtle nuances i've learned that normal people just pick up and don't think about how they do it. information came from socially addept by by janet giler, its made for children so most of it...
I think in a year and a bit since now i have started to show asperger symptoms?
how can i stop it before its too late , ive got the willpower , confidence everything i just need to stop even this is goodi think because of this i have stopped many things etc due to lack of motivation and confidence i know wha tive got to do , i just need some general advicei know a few years ago i was not like this at all and i wa sbetter off
I'm 19 and have asperger's syndrome(For those who don't know what it is please don't answer).?
I never had successful relationships.Now there's a girl in my college who i just love.We are good friends and play tennis and hang out often with friends.I have written a poem for her to tell her what i feel for her.She's a pretty intelligent girl.Should i make her read what asperger's?Because i think sometimes she thinks i'm weird because i don't hug her properly,hold her hands properly aspies suck at this ?Will she understand me?I'd love if someone understood me nobody ever has.Not even my parents.I felt so left out.
Who made this up that asperger people are torturing small animals?!?
First of all, who started this thing saying oh aspergers are torturing small animals? It's rude My friend has assburger and I feel really bad for her. If she found this out, that people are saying asperger Touture small animals she would be devastated.
Is it possible to predict if my children will have asperger's syndrome?
My brother has Asperger's and my boyfriend has an uncle with an autism spectrum disorder. Neither of us has an ASD but I have mild OCD. Is there any way to predict whether our children will have Asperger's or an autism spectrum disorder based on this information?
Do i have asperger's syndrome?
I am 22 year old male living in northern India .i have been a socially awkward guy all my life .i was never able to look a stranger in the eye and i always found social interactions a very difficult task.till now i thought i am just another nerd.but recently i came across this term asperger's syndrome and it almost explained every bit of my personality .i started to talk at the age of 2 and a half.ive always got my self beaten up by teachers due to bad handwriting even the thought of rough cloth touching my body terrorizes me .i find making friends very very difficult , i hvnt made a single friend on my own in my life , my cousin helped me with that .i cant go out in the sun , i find light very irritating .i cant forgot even a single bad thing any one ever said to me .i do hold grudges but dont fight coz i would loose friends that way .i hate to try new things i just cant help hating change i was very stubborn as a child and had very bad meltdowns and am very very passionate about my interests .i love mentioning facts in numbers . i love going through numerical fact in my mindi friends call me philosopher because , i quote " i use strange poetic language " my sister call me " buzurg" thats Hindi for " elderly man " i am very anxious and paranoid person but i never mention it to any one i am overly secretive even best of my friends knw nothing about me .i had a habbit of saying things that hurt people that made me more socially isolated .i never smiled a lot in public .some time a laugh so hard and for a long time but cant explain it .i am very very bad on phone .i cant think of any thing to talk about on the phone .am good at learning things but not very good at problem solving .i left my job coz office politics made me wanna commit suicide.indian parents at least my parents arent open to the idea of their child being mentally ill untill it goes out of hands .i just cant think of any thing else but the things i love and things i want .my obsessions are very strong and i love them more than any thing ive spent all my life obsessing about physics ,cricket , music and history .i hated my self for not being like others and i hvnt got much support from friends .so is there any chance that i might have asperger's syndrome ?
My asperger's gets in the way of everything ?
I mean what I do social or not social, it is always causing problems. In job interviews, I remain very nervous, i get jumbled up and talk to quickly to employers. My eye contact is quite poor and I try to take in people's words and then I can't remember what they said, Im always asking for repeats. I hate being a person whos afraid to socialise
Mom is being a b#tchy asperger, help!?
Mom is being a b tchy asperger, help ?My mom, i believe has aspergers, and some other emotional problem. She is so snooty that she will never see a doctor to help her. She always says its our fault because she is too busy helping us to worry about herself. While she may never be diagnosed, i am sure she has it because I have some sort of emotional problem probably the same , and my brother has autism to the highest spectrum meaning he walks around aimlessly making weird noises like an overgrown baby because he can't control his own movements . My parents have been in so many fights each one thinking the other is weird or insane the truth is they're both weirdos . Neither even tries to talk to the other about why they are fighting, because in truth they are fighting because they think they are better than the other. My mom is the worst though because keeps making everyone upset by saying rude immature comments. An example is she would tell my sis that she looked like a slut in her fotos and or her boyfriend is going to abuse her, she would continuously call me retarded or hint that i am when i try to do my homework until i fight with her, and to my dad, well he IS a guy, and she a control freak, so they both have authority issues. I don't know how to deal with her, everyday she says something either extremely annoying or rude, calls me a piece of every few seconds or telling me to go suck my friends name here dick. I mean, i tried everything 1 I tried talking with her about it 2 i try reasoning with her about why she shouldn't say those things. but she and my dad assume that i am trying to show off that i am the " King" of this house I swear i am not, I mean, wouldn't YOU become a " little" defensive if your mother splashes cold water on you everyday at 6 she says she does it just cuz she doesnt like me, AS IF I CARE ANYMORE , or threaten to kill you ? She tells me that she goes crazy because a she needs money and b because Im " retarded" i get bad grades . I am nowhere near retarded because my IQ scores are all higher than a hundred. My only problem is cognitive fluency aka cognitive functioning . I can understand that because with all my mental problems i have adhd, possibly autism, and all other mental abrasions brought on my child abuse and or childhood bullies . Another thing My sister is in college, and her grades were all 90's and hundreds, but my mom treats her almost as badly as she does me so i know there is no escaping her bitchiness she facebook stalks her because she goes to school a few hundred miles away Which besically means this I can't concentrate on my work because of all this stress I don't know what to do anymore the things i did, seem to be not enough Here, a list 1 Got a friend to help and understand 2 Pyschiatrist hopefully giving me concentration meds. ADHD pills 3 Got a new therapist. The old one assumed that all parents are instilled with motherly love and care. Try hugging my mom, its like stabbing yourself with a knife So anyways, before i left that reotten therapist i said that I learned more from a friend that i never hang out with than i did with her. My only problems 1 I have a hard time keeping friends, and im afraid that my " stable" friends are " supporting" because they feel bad for me, meaning if i do something stupid ill lose them. im kinda paranoid but if you were in my shoes you would understand 2 My parents won't let me see my pysch because they need to get money All bullshit they bought my sisses laptop and car just the other day 3 i haven't seen my new therapist because apparently we ran ot of money again. My parents would come into my room and bother the heck out of me because " they were watching helping me" , when all they did was hinder me by either taking too much charge over my homework or annoying the hell out of me. I want to stay in school, i want to go to college, get married, have sex, and make even more wonderful messed up babies jk but i can't work like this with so much stress PLEASE HELP ME Any ideas ?hahaha i would like your comment codey but im not lvl 2 yetOh yeah btw, my parents are asian and are by far the most stereotypical couple youl ever see, i mean if i was being raised in china, for every bad grade they would shove me into a bamboo cage and and poke with with a bamboo stick all day.Now i am not saying that all parents do this but still, it is pretty funny how they talk and act almost like Tong Lu Kim in southpark.I understand your point of view christian minister person but the truth is my parents and i really do have genetic disorders.Dude, my brother has full fledged autism, do you know what autism is ? It's nothing you would hope to see in your life. It is exactly like a 1 year old with an adult body, only half of their sensory issues they cannot control. To make this easier to understand here is a " tree" Weird mom Weird Dad autistic brother me with alot of issues super intelligent sister. It's all obviously genetics, 3 of my uncles killed themselves already My parents HATE diagnosing me and themselves with things you know why? because that makes them WEIRDOS because they created me. They refuse to see any slight chance of there being problems with their heads because they themselves are so messed up. Close mindedness only shows people's bad side of themselves, and believe me my parents are too much.And even if most of my emotional problems were artif
I don´t think I have Asperger´s syndrome!!!?
A few weeks ago I was diagnosed with asperger s syndrome. The problem is that I don t feel like I have it. When I read about the symptoms on the internet I find it hard to relate to them. I feel way more nerotypical. I ve also made a few internet testings and they all come to the conclusion that I don t have it. It makes me feel lost and I want to know why they diagnosed me with it.Here comes a list of the aspergers related symptoms which I do have. In some occasions I find it hard to make eye contact. I prefer to wear the same same kind of clothes every day though I don t get anxious when I don t . Sometimes smalltalk can be difficult to me. I have a bit weird walking style and a slightly monotonous speaking pattern. I ve had some trouble in school because of my inability of structuring my work. Sometimes I might seem to be a bit slow I need clear instructions sometimes . The only person I want to be with on my spare time is my older brother. I m an extremely nervous public speaker though I am good at theatre . I ve never been good at sports. I have hygiene problems I didn t know how to use shampoo till around age 12 . During my teen years I have developed a fear for my cousins and sister. I can be extremely awkward around girls. I don t participate in other peoples intrests. When it comes to my own intrests I can be somewhat of a perfectionist. Sometimes I dont feel as happy or as sad as I think I schould.That s pretty much it.Here comes a list of the non aspergers related symptoms which I do have. I both read and make facial expressions. I have no problem empathizing with other people. I don t follow any daily routine. I don t feel anxious about change. I m not too logic. I can enjoy bragging about things I just don t always wan t to show it because I am a bit shy . I don t have any sensory issues not that I know of . When I was a kid I enjoyed playing games involving pretending. I do not get anxious around new people. I understand sarcasm and metaphores. My IQ is average if you have aspergers you have either high or average IQ . I know how to behave in social situations. I can be spontaneous. I am not viewed by others as eccentric. I don t feel like I belong on an other planet.I would really like to hear someone elses opinion on this. I don t think that I am the only person facing this problem after getting diagnosed.By the way... I am 16 years old.
What are the main symptoms of Asperger's?
I've done some research, and only ONE symptom sounds like me. And it is having trouble looking people in the eye. Could i have aspergers, or could I just be shy? PS. I'm 13, and if i had it, shouldn't it have already been diagnosed? Or could my parents know, and not want to tell me? I really want to know thanks
Asperger's... I think i'm normal?...?
I have aspergers syndrome and I was kinda wondering if it was a very major condition. From the effects it has according to people who study it I can tell that I do not have most of them. I go to school on the bus, sit at the back with my friends, At lunch it's not like I sit alone, I usually again sit with some of my friends. After school I pretty much just play Madden and Call of Duty and AIM with some ... friends. I notice I have a few conditions but I do not know if my condition is TERRIBLE but I can't be sure.Hi, thank you for the helpful answers instead of just saying i'm weird. I was searching for famous people with aspergers syndrome... it made me happy to see that there have been successful people with Aspergers.I know this sounds stupid but would there be any chance that I could be like a baseball player. It sounds very stupid but... on my mom's side there was a shortstop for the Yankees Lynford Lary, A pitcher named Al Lary for the Cubs, his career was not so great. A Frank Lary, pitcher who was known as the Yankee killer, career ERA 3.49 and 1099 strikeouts 1 all star game and 2 21 games won seasons.And a Yale Lary who was a Safety Punter i know weird but went to 9 probowls,9 Time all pro selection, on the 1950's decade list AND A FRIGGEN HALL OF FAMER Can I be a baseball player???Sorry, im obsessed but According to Paul Hornung in 2004, he was the best punter ever, and he was in 3 out of 4 Lions won superbowls.
Do I have Asperger's/Autism?
After doing some research, this are the symptoms of Aspergers. Not pick up on social cues and may lack inborn social skills, such as being able to read others' body language, start or maintain a conversation, and take turns talking.Dislike any changes in routines.Appear to lack empathy.Be unable to recognize subtle differences in speech tone, pitch, and accent that alter the meaning of others speech. So your child may not understand a joke or may take a sarcastic comment literally. And his or her speech may be flat and hard to understand because it lacks tone, pitch, and accent.Have a formal style of speaking that is advanced for his or her age. For example, the child may use the word " beckon" instead of " call" or the word " return" instead of " come back." Avoid eye contact or stare at others.Have unusual facial expressions or postures.Be preoccupied with only one or few interests, which he or she may be very knowledgeable about. Many children with Asperger's syndrome are overly interested in parts of a whole or in unusual activities, such as designing houses, drawing highly detailed scenes, or studying astronomy. They may show an unusual interest in certain topics such as snakes, names of stars, or dinosaurs. Talk a lot, usually about a favorite subject. One sided conversations are common. Internal thoughts are often verbalized.Have delayed motor development. Your child may be late in learning to use a fork or spoon, ride a bike, or catch a ball. He or she may have an awkward walk. Handwriting is often poor.Have heightened sensitivity and become overstimulated by loud noises, lights, or strong tastes or textures. For more information about these symptoms, see sensory integration dysfunction. The only symptom that I have is eye contact. i understand people with aspergers CAN'T make eye contact, but I can, and can make eye contact for a long time. But, after about 5min or so, i start getting nervous.Do i have Asperger's or a form of Autism?Or could I just be shy? Ps im 13, could that have anything to do with it?
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